Jan. 25th, 2009

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[livejournal.com profile] malvito - In the past, I would have said bloody unlikely. Now, I think I'd likely give it a go, after the naked hot-tubbing recently turned out to be fun and a non-issue at the same time. I'm getting more comfortable in my own skin, and far less self-conscious.

[livejournal.com profile] ladyegreen - I'm no longer willing to squelch down my personality to conform, even for security and stability. I think I'd go mad if I didn't have an outlet of some sort. I don't know that that outlet will always be wenching, and I might be willing to find a different outlet, but I'll not let go of who I am. Not worth it, at the end of the day.

[livejournal.com profile] naamah_darling - I think you are at the place where you need to determine if what you have is a hobby that you occasionally make money at, or a business doing something you love (assuming that you do still love it.) If it is a hobby, then I'd suggest you contact your current commissions, tell them that you may not be able to finish by any deadlines, offer them the choice of a refund or waiting, and carry on as best you can, declining commissions after these and simply painting what you love and selling them as you finish them. If it is a business, then after contacting your clients and offering them the same option of refund/ waiting, you are going to have to start treating it like a business, by setting aside a specific time every day and working on it, whether it be drafting designs, prepping boxes, painting, photographing. I don't know how you jump start your creative process, though I think taking some time to do things that inspire you, whether it is visiting museums, watching movies, cranking the music and dancing around in your underwear...whatever. I'm hoping now that you are sleeping better, you will find the strength and energy to carry on, to create, to renew yourself. It is time for a personal renaissance for you, and I believe great things are ahead for you. Winter will have it's last gasp, and then Spring will come, with all that entails, and I think you'll find your stride again. You'll get out walking again, you'll finish your nesting, and the creative juices will begin flowing. I speak it into being.

[livejournal.com profile] klingon007 - I don't know. I've been in a lot of vanilla relationships, and, at the end of the day, I find them unsatisfying. So while I might be willing to help someone find out if their kinks and my kinks line up, I don't know that I'd be willing to stay in the relationship if they didn't. Life is too short to stay in relationships where you aren't happy or where your needs aren't being met, at least in my humble opinion.

[livejournal.com profile] eeyoke - Yes, I did. Probably always will. And we did kind of explore that, to some degree, during your first marriage, if you remember. I seem to recall your bras being involved...*grins* Don't want to say too much in this semi-public forum, but I kind of thought you knew, based on that. Feel free to contact me privately, if you want to discuss further, unless you are comfortable with a more public discussion.

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